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Kerry. 20. Richmond/DC. ardent atheist, staunch feminist, lover of literature, little mons†er, wino, wit, nicotine fiend, stonergirl extraordinaire. I like David Bowie, The Velvet Underground, Andy Warhol and his Factory, cats, Elliott Smith, Lady Gaga, Kristen Wiig, comedy, ridiculousness, weed, wine, absurdity, Shakespeare, and cool fashionz~. Expect drunk blogging. I am my hair †

The reality of what women, even feminists, find pleasurable is not always politically correct. Sexuality is not neat and clean. I have talked to many feminist women who struggle to balance what really happens behind closed doors and what they feel the bedroom politics of a “good feminist” should be. Enjoying BDSM, strap-on sex and sex toys, genderplay, rape and incest taboo, mainstream pornography, and other “deviant” sexual taboos with a consensual partner does not make a person a “bad feminist” or a hypocrite. To the contrary, feminism is what gave me permission to love sex, with myself and with others, to embrace my sexual orientation, and find out what turns me on. Pro-sex feminism argues that recognizing the role of fantasy in sexual arousal and coming out of shame about sexual desires opens the door to a more frank and honest discussion about women’s bodies, consent, and safer sex. And that leads to better, safer sex that encourages communication and complete, enthusiastic consent to sex that is fulfilling and healthy. How is that not feminist?
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Feminist Porn: Sex, Consent, and Getting Off  (via butchrag)

Not super into fawning over the 2G feminists as per the rest of this article, but this particular quote highlights a nice point

(via youdontlooklikeafeminist)

(via redlipswidehips)


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